Amazing Grace Live on Late Night w/ DJ Baker

I performed Amazing Grace on DJ Baker’s Late Night Show. After the tapping I wasn’t sure how much I liked my performance, but watching it back now, there are some good moments. What do you think? A big thank you to DJ Baker for having me on:)

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Song of the Day

Winning R&B/Soul OUTMusic Award 2010

The 7th Annual OUTMusic Awards kicked off with amazing performances by Women who Rock – in every genre! It was great to see Jazz singer/drummer and Living Legend honoree Paula “Styx” Hampton jam just as beautifully as heavy Rocker MilitiA. Judging the standing ovations, the audience loved it too!

Earlier, I walked the red carpet, doing interviews, smiling for photos, and hoping nothing was out-of-place, judging from the QTalk and GBM News videos, I did alright – (I’m about 20 minutes in QTalk and 11 minuest in GBM News).

Comedian Tammy Peay hosted this year’s awards and kept us laughing, as she introduced presenters and performers. I loved the variety of acts on stage, I think there was something for everyone – Folk-R&B-Soul-Pop and everything in between. I got a sense that everyone was just as excited as I was – it wasn’t about winning and losing as much as it was about celebrating how far we’ve come.

Celebrating how far we’ve come…

Some of my favorite performances were BSlade‘s space age Disco tribute to Icon Sylvester, Tona Brown and Aida Strings classical piece, Athena Reich nerdy cocoon to sexy butterfly number, Deepa Soul funky rock anthem, American Idol contestant William Scott‘s Uganda tribute, Raye6 grand circus finale, and the Hip Hop segment which featured baron, Infinite, Foxxjazel, Shorty Roc, Last O, Empress Milan, DJ Mary Mac and The 5 Star Music Nation.

Photo by Andrew Werner

The OMA for R&B/Soul song of the year was in the 2nd half of the show. I was sitting with my good friend Bob Schaffer (we filmed Amazing Grace at his NYC apartment) and rapper Bone Intell. Da Doo Dirty Show host DJ Baker and artist Lovari presented the Award. Marck Angel was sitting in the row behind me, Jesse O couldn’t be there, but I’d promised to text him if he won, I’d talked with Kalup Linzy briefly at last year’s Awards, and even though I didn’t get to meet Tyrangem, I follow him on Facebook. Anyone of us could have won.

I remember thinking Wow!

I stared at the floor while they read the nominees and I remember thinking “wow” when I heard my name and all the applause. I got to the stage, gave DJ Baker a big hug, and completely forgot all the people I needed to thank… lol. All I could think of was The Gay Warrior Song and its importance, and why I wrote it. This song has been with me for 7 years, growing and getting stronger, and it is dedicated to all women, men, and transexuals around the world who are fighting for Love – hold on! Truth will prevail.

Thank you to all my friends, fans, followers…

I do want to say a big thank you to my manager Ron for all the love, I’ve said it before, and I will say it again – I would not be here without you. Another big thank you to the bloggers for all your support, independent and internet radio, (especially DJ Baker) for all the spins and mentions, Diedra Merideth and everyone at LARA for working to keep the OUTMusic Awards alive. Finally I want to thank you – my friends, fans, followers, subscribers, and supporters. You’re presence means the world to me… thank you sooooooo much for being in my life and taking this journey with me.

Photo by Andrew Werner

Everything was filmed and when it airs I will let you know:)

Depression in Black Gay Men

I remember a time when I was depressed – it was a time that I never ever want to revisit, and I hope no one has to endure. Depression is a disease that cripples people of all walks of life. Award winning Journalist Antoine Craigwell has been creating safe spaces for men of African decent to discuss and support one another.

On May 17 he will moderate a discussion “Being Black and Gay: Struggles with HIV and Depression” at Riverside church in New York city. If you live in NYC or know someone who does, please help spread the word… it may save a life.

Riverside Church

Riverside Church – Room 10 T
91 Claremont Avenue (btw 120 & 121st Streets)
New York, NY 10027

Tuesday, May 17 @ 6 pm

Doors open 6:00 pm / Service begins at 6:30 pm


Antoine Craigwell
Journalist/writer for Out In Jersey magazine


Christopher Johnson
MSW Supportive Services with Gay Men of African Descent (GMAD)
DJ Baker
Talk Radio and Blog host
O’Brien Dennis Tyson
Founder – O’Brien Dennis Foundation, (Research)
Rev. Stacey Latimer
Senior Pastor of Love Alive International
Ty Martin
Services and Advocacy for Gay, Lesbian, Bisexual and Transgender Elders (SAGE)

Refreshments will be served at 6:00 pm / Metro-card reimbursement for PLWHA
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